Considering disabled members of the community
At Livability, we aim to help churches create communities where everyone is included.
But as we respond to coronavirus, how can this be achieved with those who are disabled? With churches asking what they can do to offer the most effective help, we offer some principles to operate by and some ideas to put into action when considering those who might need particular help in our community.
Recognise that each experience of disability is unique
The broad term disability can cover many experiences and impairments which change the way that people uniquely interact with the world. It’s important to remember that we shouldn’t make assumptions about what people need, even at a time like this. Taking time to understand what’s required offers respect for the uniqueness of each person- regardless of what seems apparent on the surface.
Communication may need extra effort
It may be reasonable to assume that many people have received the message that help is available- but if your communication channels are limited due to disability, this may not be the case. For some, social media may be inaccessible. Use the eyes, hands and feet of trusted neighbours- and put a call out asking that they specifically pass on the information of your offer.
Take social distancing very seriously
Some may be living with conditions which place them in a highly vulnerable grouping. Precautions on distance contact and disinfecting will need to take priority. Always check in and comply with Public Health guidance on this.
Do your research
Before you begin reaching out to neighbours: make contact with other local organisations such as your local COVID 19 group and networks offering support. Local Mencap or MIND groups, or Alzheimer’s and MS Society groups often provide good points of contact for advice for those impacted by specific conditions. Work together and avoid duplication of services where possible – can your church family contribute to an existing food bank or support with ‘Check In and Chat’ services that have already been set up?
Consider your best gift as a community
It may be that is practical help- but If your local COVID 19 group is already well resourced- think carefully as to whether your best support may be friendship or pastoral support. A note to say ‘we’re praying for this area- we’d love to pray for you or with you on the phone, or just chat- you choose’ may be welcome. Whatever you decide, be clear about why you are getting in touch with people. An offer of connection may be particularly meaningful in a time of increasing social isolation.
At a time like this support to carers may be missed. Respite opportunities are reduced, day centres are limited, services disrupted. What can you do to encourage or support somebody in this position? Remember that the needs may be opposite to the people who are receiving the care. There may be local carer support groups whose details may be available through your local GP.
Ask what might be helpful
As well as making specific offers of support, you might not have thought of something very simple that could make a big difference in a person’s life, so ask! It may also be helpful to know other networks they are part of. Note: you may not be able to offer the support a person is asking for (for example a home safety check, which can be offered by the local Fire & Rescue service) but you may be able to find a local organisation that can help.
Appreciate your neighbour
As you introduce yourself to your neighbours, consider equally that with the right support a disabled person may be able to contribute to church family life as much as they are a recipient of help. First things first though, let a person know you are glad they are your neighbour and take it from there.
Your Neighbour: Churches are working around the clock to demonstrate love to their neighbours through this global pandemic. YourNeighbour.org equips church leaders with the latest updates and resources and connects people in need to churches.
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